I had composed that last post, but I had to
leave the pc for awhile. I came back, to find
a slew of posts from ill-intentioned persons
who have absolutely zero gratitude for the
blessings in their lives, and zero respect for
others, or for themselves. I think maybe some
community service is warranted. BIG TIME.
Get over yourselves, skulkers. Nothing you say,
do, think, feel, intend, is about anyone else. It is
about you, and only you. It is high time you
reached out to someone for help - your parents,
your minister, or a good doctor. Someone.
If you are adult persons, skulkers, it is you who
are responsible for your own well-being, and
for your behaviors and your own words and
intentions and thoughts and feelings.
Ross is not responsible, in any way, for the
lack in your lives. Neither is Daria. Nor is
any other one, among us, here. This is a
very special blogging community, and we
all come here because we like Ross, and we
also love him. As he is. He does not need to
change to something else, for us to like him
and love him. Ross will, of course, continue
to grow and blossom, as will each of us.
Because that is what we need to do, in our
lives, and that is what we want to do.
You need to do the same. You need to do
what it takes, in order to become the decent,
kind, loving persons whom you were put on
this planet to be. What you do not realize,
apparently, is that you do not love your own
self, each individual among you skulkers.
You do not love your own self, so, you cannot
love anyone else. You are just as worthy as
anyone else on the planet. We all are worthy.
But, you must look in your mirror and see
yourself, and make the decision to love that
person. As you are. You must also make the
decision to look at the areas of yourself that
are bringing pain to you, and do the work
that needs doing, to heal those painful areas.
Get yourself a copy of THE FOUR AGREEMENTS,
by don Miguel Ruiz. And, get Gary Zukav's
SEAT OF THE SOUL books. Or, get these books
on CDs. Use them. With books, you can use a
highlighter, and a pen, and make notes, and go
back and reread and reread, until you get the
important message. The information that you
need to heal your life is in those books. Use it.
It absolutely will help you to become the you
that you need to become. The real you. You
are being dishonest with yourself, living your
life in the way that you are currently living it.
Learn to have respect for yourself, and for
the persons at this blog, and for all others
on the planet. Learn what respect is, and
develop it. Learn what integrity is, and do
what you need to do, to develop it, too.
Decide that you can be a responsible and
good person, and make the choices, each and
every day, every minute of the day, make the
choices that will get you there. If you choose
not to be the person that you were put on this
planet to be, that is the choice that you,
yourself, are making. You cannot blame it on
anyone else. Period. Not on Ross, or on anyone
else at this blog. Not on anyone else, anywhere.
The fact that Ross has been unable to let us
know just what is what, yet, concerning the
changes that are taking place, IS TOTALLY
NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. PERIOD!!!
Knowing cannot make you happy, and not
knowing cannot make you unhappy. This is
not about Ross. This is about you, and your
choices in your own life. Your job in this life
is to be responsible for how you conduct
yourself, and what you learn and whether
or not you grow into the real person that
you should be, which is certainly not the
person that you are showing yourself to be,
here. This means each one of you skulkers.
(Or, do you prefer Trolls?)
If you cannot understand what is here written,
find a good, kind, healthy-minded, responsible
adult person, and ask them to help you to
understand it. Perhaps a guidance counselor,
or a teacher, or a minister. Someone. Do.
If this blog is not the place for you, then,
have the guts to make that choice, too, and
go elsewhere. We are not going to turn into
hateful, unkind Blog Buddy Friends, because
you think that it would serve your purpose,
for that to happen. Think again, buster.
Busters.
The following is intended for all of my true
RossBlog Buddies, and you know who you are.
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