The only effect my secret love tonic had on him was that it forced him to run to the loo several times each morning.  I'm not quite sure what more I can do to help him find love and happiness, and I'm at my wit's end.  I feel obligated because of our friendship, as he is one of, if not, my closest mate.  Anyone have any other suggestions?  My favorite Goth band from the UK, Inkubus Sukkubus, is playing at the Haven club in Northampton this weekend.  Maybe I'll drag him along.  I'll see if Lily wants to join as well.  Although she probably has 'plans' again with that Jeffrey Brandau with whom she spends the majority of her free time.  Other than the fact that he seems a bit neurotic, I don't know much about him.  Since he and Lily seem to be getting quite serious, maybe it's time I sat him down to make sure he's an honest chap who will do right by her!  I'll let you know how it goes.  Kisses.